Dear Annie: I am 40 years old, and my husband is 44. When we first got together, he treated me well, but things changed. Now, whenever I visit him, he drinks heavily and becomes violent.

Dear Annie: I am 40 years old, and my husband is 44. When we first got together, ... I keep praying to God to help me save this marriage, but I am starting to feel completely lost.

DEAR ABBY: I have spent 40 years serving the public and my country, putting other people first and feeling guilty if I didn’t. However, I am becoming resentful of the demands for my time. I’m ...